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As the first active member of one of the major sports leagues to come out as gay, NBA player Jason Collins's announcement yesterday has generated praise from gay-rights supporters. Alternatively, you may be so familiar with a particular gay sauna that you’re written into the fire instructions. You'd think that homo-haters would prefer to know where the threat is coming from, but the point is that same-sex harassment in locker rooms should be no more a problem with openly gay athletes than it was before.
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You don’t go to a sauna to play Scrabble. The gay-shower scenario comes up whenever public discussion turns to gays in sports, and it was also a concern during the debate over "don't ask, don't tell," with some members of the military suggesting separate showering facilities for gay and straight soldiers.
- Given the societal pressure to be straight and the history of closeted gay, bi, and queer men saying one thing and doing another, I don’t necessarily think we need to take people at their word.
Gay saunas are sex-positive places. Predictably, it has also prompted dire warnings about gays in the locker room from homophobes like the Family Research Council's Brian Fischer:. This is precisely what a Department of Defense working group found in recommending how to implement the repeal of "don't ask, don't tell. Gay saunas are sex-positive places.
I do not want some guy, a teammate, eyeballing me in the shower. People will naturally check each other out and size each other up regardless of their orientation. Shower, put your clothes on, and mind your own business. Which brings me to the main point: As a gay man, I can assure you that we're probably less likely to look at your junk than your fellow straight guys.
Rather than engage in the typical bro-to-bro bravado at the gym-I've never witnessed towel-snapping fights so often portrayed in movies, but I have seen guys shout boisterously across the locker room, pat each other on the back, and comment on each other's bodies "dude, what'd you do to get those pecs? He described the locker room environment as both homophobic and homoerotic, with mixed messages that made it a confusing and hostile place for someone closeted.
The absence of openly gay players in football made him hesitant to come out, fearing it would be a distraction to his teammates and coach. You take a shower on your way in, and even more eyes are roving. For as long as there have been sex-segregated locker rooms-and, if we're talking about the Romans, public baths-gay guys have been showering with straight guys; it's a natural consequence of using sex as a proxy for sexual orientation.
First, let's state the obvious. I will guarantee you I don't want that. This seems to be a concern primarily among men-women, for whatever reason, aren't half as scared of lesbians-but it's a common refrain among homophobes trying to stoke gay panic. Part of this is no doubt a vestige of our closeted high-school days, when we'd stop at nothing to avoid being found out as a lanky teenager with no eye-hand coordination to speak of, P.
But I've also come to see it as a means of showing respect for the comfort of others. As soon as you’re in the locker room getting into your white towel, eyes begin roving. But one can understand how the idea generates mild discomfort even among guys who are pretty accepting. As soon as you’re in the locker room getting into your white towel, eyes begin roving. The only difference now is that, at least in the gay men in locker room or on sports teams with openly gay members, you know who's gay.
And of course, lots of peeking in the locker room. I'm aware that even the most gay-friendly straight guy doesn't want to be ogled in the locker room-who does? You don’t go to a sauna to play Scrabble. Eyes to yourself and just go about your business. In my afternoon gym visits I had a few sexy times in the steam room with guys when no one was around. It would be silly to say that no guy has ever been hit on in a locker room, but as far as I know this has not been a widespread problem in any of the major sports leagues; having a colleague who's had the courage to be honest about who he is won't change that.
The gym locker room rules are simple and apply to every person gay or straight. You take a shower on your way in, and even more eyes are roving. Gay service members, their report said, have "learned to avoid making heterosexuals feel uncomfortable or threatened in situation [sic] such as this.